Husband verbally & physically beats up his wife while his son records it all on video.
A Garden Grove, California woman named Catherine Kieu Becker will face a judge Wednesday, after she reportedly sliced off her husband's penis with a 10-inch knife and tossed it into the garbage disposal. Here's how it all went down: On Monday, Becker had laced a meal of her husband's with drugs, Garden Grove police Lt. Jeff Nightengale said, causing the man to get sick and pass out in bed. Once he was unconscious, she tied his arms and legs to the bedposts, stripped him, and made the unkindest cut.
Withholding Sex from an Abusers is that a Reason for The Abuser to Cheat???
When a woman stays with her abuser and sex comes up, most of the times she feels like withholding. Abusers use the withholding of sex as a way to make the victim feel that they are selfish and are hurting the abuser. When in all actuality the victim is scorn, scarred, scared, hurting, confused and needs to get out of the situation but for some reason is still there.
"To anyone who has been or is still in an abusive relationship. It's not your fault. Get OUT of that Relationship!!!" -@Monsterr
Posted by _Risa Wright
I can’t seem to understand why I’m still here, with my family whole, yet broken. I’m a “before” picture – torn up and spat out. Spat on.
I am the Before Picture. Before making the decision to get a divorce, before starting my life over, before looking him in the eye and saying ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! NO MORE!
Do you believe that Abusers are able to control their behavior? Or do you feel as if they are out of control?
Let me know.
Posted By _Risa Wright
Abusers ARE are able to control their behavior—they do it all the time.
Domestic violence and abuse are used for one purpose and one purpose only: to gain and maintain total control over you. An abuser doesn’t “play fair.” Abusers use fear, guilt, shame, and intimidation to wear you down and keep you under his or her thumb. Your abuser may also threaten you, hurt you, or hurt those around you.
Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of size, gender, or strength, yet the problem is often overlooked, excused, or denied. This is especially true when the abuse is psychological, rather than physical. Emotional abuse is often minimized, yet it can leave deep and lasting scars.
Noticing and acknowledging the warning signs and symptoms of domestic violence and abuse is the first step to ending it. No one should live in fear of the person they love.
"Stopping an Abuser's Drug and or Alcohol problem will not stop their abusive patterns, they are two separate entities although drug and alcohol use does make abuse more likely."
According to Ezine Articles more than 50% of spousal abusers also abuse their children.
Facts and Stat, according to Care Lodge Domestic Violence Shelter, Inc.,
According to reports, 90s rapper Tone Loc was arrested yesterday afternoon on account of felony domestic violence after engaging in a physical altercation with his child’s mother.
According to TMZ, the rapper, whose real name is Anthony Smith, went to visit the mother’s apartment complex around 2:45 p.m. in Burbank, California. After the alleged fight, he was arrested several hours later.
He Is currently being held on $50,000 bail.
Posted by _Risa Wright